(this is aleesa my bff!)
play the game. off top kidds, its all a game. either play or get played, ya dig?
these are the rules...
1. play-not in the sense of "playa"-playin. like be honest about where your relationship, or whatever yall happen ta be calling it, is at. never cut the team loose until you reach monogomy. let him run point but dnt bench tha squad. im not one for passing out the cooch by any means but we all need entertainment.
2. girls get serious way before guys even consider the option. pull back sweethearts. you might feel like yall are one way- he's probably not.
3. guys think yall have talked every day while girls know we havent talked for 27 hours 43 minutes and 25, 26, 27 seconds. exaggerating but still. every day convo is not a major staple for talking relationships. let him miss you.
4. dnt listen to excessive amounts of love songs. it'll fill your head and heart with silly ideas.
5. stop daydreaming. he'll never be the guy you've pieced together in you mind. and when he doesnt meet these outlandish expectations youll be the one crushed. well what did you expect silly girl?
6. he's a man. he'll fail every test you put him to. yes, every test.
7. speak up. if you wanta see him, say so. girl, i promise you, somebody else will. and they'll be a a hell of a lot more agressive than us good girls. dnt let goin ass hoes get ya man.
8. boys can invest oodles of time and never feel anything. strange, i know, i but its true. you need to learn to read yo dude. dnt let your feelings cloud your judgement. just because yall happen to spend a lot of time, make sure its for the right reason. ppl arent always on the same page.
9. dnt compare your relationships with your friends or even just ppl you see. things are never as they seem and a lot more goes on behind closed doors than you can see from the outside looking in. be true to yours and leave the world to do whatever it does best.
10. (this is my fav) if youre takin care of yours, he should never have to look elsewhere. and vice versa. you gotta do whatever it takes to keep her happy, within reason of course, but whaever none the less so she wnt be looking else where for a thrill. ladies, hold him down, give him a reason to come home and he'll always bring it all back to you.
these are my little words of wisdom. my homegirl had a convo with my friend and this was a lot of their discussion. i thought you might be able to apply it to you and yours and move forward. good luck...
-xo-
play the game. off top kidds, its all a game. either play or get played, ya dig?
these are the rules...
1. play-not in the sense of "playa"-playin. like be honest about where your relationship, or whatever yall happen ta be calling it, is at. never cut the team loose until you reach monogomy. let him run point but dnt bench tha squad. im not one for passing out the cooch by any means but we all need entertainment.
2. girls get serious way before guys even consider the option. pull back sweethearts. you might feel like yall are one way- he's probably not.
3. guys think yall have talked every day while girls know we havent talked for 27 hours 43 minutes and 25, 26, 27 seconds. exaggerating but still. every day convo is not a major staple for talking relationships. let him miss you.
4. dnt listen to excessive amounts of love songs. it'll fill your head and heart with silly ideas.
5. stop daydreaming. he'll never be the guy you've pieced together in you mind. and when he doesnt meet these outlandish expectations youll be the one crushed. well what did you expect silly girl?
6. he's a man. he'll fail every test you put him to. yes, every test.
7. speak up. if you wanta see him, say so. girl, i promise you, somebody else will. and they'll be a a hell of a lot more agressive than us good girls. dnt let goin ass hoes get ya man.
8. boys can invest oodles of time and never feel anything. strange, i know, i but its true. you need to learn to read yo dude. dnt let your feelings cloud your judgement. just because yall happen to spend a lot of time, make sure its for the right reason. ppl arent always on the same page.
9. dnt compare your relationships with your friends or even just ppl you see. things are never as they seem and a lot more goes on behind closed doors than you can see from the outside looking in. be true to yours and leave the world to do whatever it does best.
10. (this is my fav) if youre takin care of yours, he should never have to look elsewhere. and vice versa. you gotta do whatever it takes to keep her happy, within reason of course, but whaever none the less so she wnt be looking else where for a thrill. ladies, hold him down, give him a reason to come home and he'll always bring it all back to you.
these are my little words of wisdom. my homegirl had a convo with my friend and this was a lot of their discussion. i thought you might be able to apply it to you and yours and move forward. good luck...
-xo-
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