Wednesday, September 3, 2008

decisions


when you decide to love, caring for someone else's life and happiness, when you decide to lay it all out and put the pieces on the floor consider...is this worth it? are you down for this ride? and would you be able to put all those pieces back in the right order?
is it worth it? face it we're grown. this is make it or break it time, we are preapring to establish ourselves in this world. we dnt date for kicks anymore, think long term. real men dnt date ta "hit" so if thats the vibe youre getting-dip. ask yourself if loving him has the proper rewards in store, im not talking money or things, im talk companionship and honesty. does he have what you need for yall to make it work...
are you down for the ride? while this blog has absolutely nothing to do with me and mines i can only speak from my perspective. saying that, i crave stability, consistancy. hot and cold is most def not my style. im more of a 4 wheel drive luxury sound ride kinda lady, some ppl prefer top back old skool mustang wild and crazy type of ride. if you wanta wake up wondering who is he today, then by all means do it. you wanta know your dude inside and out, assured that the man that fell asleep beside you is going to be the same man that wakes up next to you, then you need someoone else. if you wanta do this hot cold bullshyt be my guest, if not find a stable man and let love flow. which ever you are buckle up and ride, but which ever way you roll are you ready for whatever is in store...
can you put all the pieces back in order? when you embark on a real for real relationship you pretty much throw it all on the floor and hope he picks it all up. now realize, should yall so go separate ways youll have to pick up all yo shyt and put it back. if you see any indication that this is running the risk of ending short keep yo shyt to your self kuz the worst part of breaking up is getting all yo shyt back, emotionally and physically.
decide, sweetheart, is he worth this? all of this? we, as friends, can only hold you as you cry, can wipe away the tears but this is your baggage and we cant lighten your load until you forgive yourself and everyone that has hurt you. forgiveness is a journey, believe me, i know. but baby girl that is one ride that takes a lot of time. and until you return from that vacation, trust you me, you cant ride for anything else. this is your life, your choice, and your heart. so who's gonna save your soul?

i love you



-lauryn hill ex-factor-

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