for better or worse

what hurts the most, is being is so close. she had so much to say, just to watch you walk away...
as women though, the loving and understanding creations we've become, we go along with whatever you say, because you know best, or do you? if this is what you want, we'll give it to you. if that's how you like it, we'll give it to you. you wanta be "friends", we'll give it to you. but realize, please please realize. you'll never be friends. the history you've shared, written in the book of "Time Wasted but Slick Time Loved" can never be erased. it's written in you heart burned into you memory. whomever you meet next or later, whenever, youll subconsciously compare them to one another. tit for tat in some things but there is one that can trump all. if it was not for a woman, there would be no "great" men. if it was not for our love and commitment to you and all the things you love...men wouldnt be half the man they are. support. real women, honest and true real women, stand by their man. i stand by mine, in whatever he chooses, ill support him. cheerleaders, that constant "Go Baby" makes all the difference. you cannot find genuine support in anyone else but a good woman. so realize, please please realize that that her support trumps all the factors that could even make anyone look somewhat appealing. and i must say i commend any man who respects the fact that women do require a lot and that if you know you cant give her everything she deserves, there is no point in stringing her along. but realize, yes again realize, that you cant drop one thing to focus on another because eventually youll drop all things for one, and when the time comes and that one thing falls apart, youll be left looking for her. timeless, real love is timeless. im not even talking about be "in" love, i mean the love you share when you sincerely care for another person's life. as women, we love our men long before we fall "in love" with our men. we think youre great long before youll establish your success. and if that love is real love we'll be standing by you long after youve walked away on us...and thats not fair, it is not fair. because as women we'll listen to what you say because as Christian women, we've learned to play our role, let you lead and trust that God will guide your direction so that through you, He'll guide us both. but when you go left, we gotta stay right. and when you walk off, we gotta sit tight. but you really need to realize that every time you do "this", "this" being that thing that men do to upset us, the list is too long to write so just go with the "this", we're the one crushed, we're the one sad, and while your taking care of business we're left crying...crying because you didnt realize, you just didnt realize...